6 March 2008
Success Stories
I have so many success stories of people getting what they want, finding the life of their dreams, getting the job they want, earning more money, attracting better homes, partners and more, but here's the thing. Even after they have what they want, they want something more and usually go into the same frustrated attitudes they had when they were wanting the things they have now.. They still experience the same fears and dramas over getting their new desires as they did wanting the desires they have got, and their friends will say, "They have what they want and STILL they are not happy. " They complained for years about being single and wanting a loving partner, or a baby, or good job, and now they have it, why aren't they happy?
What is going on? Why are these people still not happy?
Many people are not happy no matter what they create or achieve because they haven't practiced creating an attitude of happiness. Law of attraction tells us we have to be happy to get what we want because we are a vibrational match to what we have in our lives, and everyones wants because they thnink fulfilling their desires will bring them happiness. But most people will be happy at some time in their life, and in those moments they will attract what they want. Look at movie stars who have had amazing careers, but come out and say they have been suffering depression for most of their life. These people are so used to worrying about life, they have created an chronic attitude of panic, worry, doubt or frustration and still they managed to create amazing careers.
Didn't we want to achieve our desires because we want to feel good?
I am not a teacher of success, the universe has all that handled, you are guaranteed to get what you want at some stage, I am a teacher of joy, connection and loving the life you have. As the Beetles said; "Life is what happens while you're busy making plans". Don't get me wrong, making plans is a very important part of life, we all want something to live into, it is when we stop making plans that life looses its lustre, but once we know what we want, we need to go about loving the life we have instead of crying over not having what we have identified as a desire to live into .
I have heard many so called spiritual gurus say that desire is a bad thing because it doesn't make us happy when we get are wishes, or if it does, we are only happy for a minute, then we create new desires, and they have called this continual coming up with something more to live into, human suffering. And what I say to that is; Desire is not suffering, desire is creating; and it never ceases and never will. Even the enlightenment seekers have desires. They want stillness, peace, fulfillment, enlightenment and many of them struggle as much to achieve these things as they did to achieve the material things they have now denied because wanting them caused their suffering. Suffering only occurs when we entertain the thought, " I can not have what I want" But Is this statement true?
The reason this thought feels so bad is because it is such a long vibrational distance from the truth of who we are and from the thoughts that align us with source and connects us to our inner knowing or higher wisdom. We feel the discord, and call it Negative Emotion or Suffering.
The things that mean the most to you will give you the most trouble in your life.
Because you have given them so much meaning, you have placed your happiness in their control.
and your happiness is not there, your happiness is in you .
"I can't be happy until I find my perfect partner, until my child is more respectful of me, or until I get the money I want, the house I want, the relationship I want, the job I want, the health I want...."
None of these things have the power to give you happiness. You will get them, you will have what you want, but you will still be unhappy because you have not practiced being happy with yourself. You haven't cultivated an attitude of Joy and self love and appreciation. Happiness has not been your daily routine, stress and seeking or searching for what you want has been your daily routine.
How do I change my attitude toward myself and life?
This is something I can support you with. These constant and changing thoughts that are hounding you, the doubt, the stress the worry are not in control of YOU. You need to change the meaning of it all. You need to really look at your worries from a different perspective. ASK yourself;
"It is true?
Will I really be alone for the rest of my life. Is the world really coming to an end?
Will I not get what I want? "
By questioning the validity of our negative thoughts, we make them much less powerful. We eliminate the meaning we have given them. After all, a thought is just a thought, but it is when we give it so much meaning that it becomes our reality.
It is when we cultivate an attitude of excited expectancy and fulfillment with what we have created that makes life an enlightened playground..
Be joyful about the life you have, because you are going to get what you want. This is what you have come to experience, YOU ARE A CREATOR! But many of you think ONLY when you get what you want you will feel good, and feeling good is available to you right now!
Success is not about getting everything you want, Success is about enjoying everything you have..
So now that you know this, what are you going to do with your day?
Is there a situation in your life you want to feel better about?
Call KAREN for a guidance session and live the life you deserve.
0414321432 Sydney Australia
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