Question; The difference between right and good. I believe feeling right is more powerful than feeling good in some senses. One example: you feel it is right to leave your lover, but it does certainly not feel good. And there are some things in life one has to do because it is right to do so. Then, the feeling good will follow...because it was right! How about that? Steve... From your statement of feeling right verses feeling good, this implies that there is some things in the world that one must do because right does not feel good. And you have a guidance system that was carefully designed, before you came forth into this physical body, that is always showing you what is best for you!
If it feels good, then it is right FOR YOU. Not for anyone else but for you. And if it feels anything less than good then it is not going to get you the results you are seeking.
Like joy, happiness, wellness and LOVE
There have been Many religions and governments over the years that have told us that if it feels good it must be wrong and if it feels bad it must be right. But this has been all part of a system that wants you to listen to them and not listen to your own guidance system....
When you are making a decision to leave a relationship, this choice always comes from palace of wanting to feel better when the relationship is no longer serving your desires.
So the decision is made not out of rightness for another or for you, but from a place of seeking more good feelings...
And good feelings are not the results of action, but the result of thoughts.
When one leaves a relationship because they feel bad and they are seeking a better feeling place, what they will get is more of the same bad feelings in the next relationship.
But if one could find a place of feeling good in the bad relationship and appreciate the relationship for what it is and what it has given them and make he decision to leave, or not leave, based on a good feeling place knowing that all is well and everyone will benefit from the decision you have made.
Then the next relationship will line up with that good feeling place. Law of attraction will make sure of this.
Ultimately this decision will be the right one for all concerned as no one thrives in a relationship that is one-sided. There will always be another willing to partner for anyone that will allow it.
As for the subject at hand, when one has been disappointed, as you have with the goings on at the casa, blame always feels better than disappointment, victimisation or anger. And so it feels right. But forgiveness, acceptance and understanding always feels better than blame. ALL Ways.
The question is what do you want to feel around this subject. The better you feel around any subject the more connected you are to source energy and the more power you have to affect change.
A decision to action anything should always come from a good feeling place, this way the repercussions from the action will line up with the energy that created the action.
But if one takes an action from a place of blame, revenge or feeling powerless and wanting the action to regain some power. The action will always create more of the energy that it was created with.
Inspired action creates miracles. So ask your self, does it feel joyous, exciting and inspired to take this action, or does it feel just better than feeling victimised?
Find a place of joy around the subject and then make your decision and take action.
Love is you Steve. Your greater self, the Universe... |